
A Sermon by Pastor Tom Lacey . . .
“ya Gotta love that jesus guy”
John 2:1-11, Preached by Tom Lacey at Congregational Church of Boca Raton, January 17, 2010
An Irish priest is driving down to New York and gets stopped for speeding in Connecticut. The state trooper smells alcohol on the priest's breath and then sees an empty wine bottle on the floor of the car. "Sir,” the officer asks, “Have you been drinking?" "Just water," says the priest. The trooper says, "Then why do I smell wine?" The priest looks at the bottle and says, "Good Lord! He's done it again!"
Ya gotta love a guy who turns water into wine. We often think
of transformation in terms of opposites, where ugly becomes beautiful as in
Beauty and the Beast, or the good becomes bad, as in the kind Dr. Jekyll
transformed into the cruel Mr. Hyde. We also think of change in terms of
something unrecognizable, like the caterpillar metamorphosing into a winged
butterfly or the transformer toys, when a car becomes a robot. And it is true
that God can and does transform people in those ways. But there is another type
of transformation that is modeled at
Let’s assume today's text is not primarily a story about a
wedding, about drinking, or about who scurried around to do what for whom. The
first thing to notice then is that John does not call this a miracle. In fact,
John does not call anything a miracle in his Gospel. They are signs. He records
seven “signs” in his Gospel and changing the water into wine is the first. None
of the other Gospel writers saw the miracle at
The story of Jesus turning water into wine may get people snagged on one of the details. The wine can do it; in fact, there are some whose only commentary on this story is an attempt to prove that Jesus turned water into grape juice. But that's to miss the truth that it actually is wine, not grape juice that comes out of the jugs. Now even if this isn’t precisely a story about wine, nor should it ever be used as support for abusing alcohol, it surely strikes some uncomfortably that when the wine ran out, instead of wagging his index finger and saying “Good, now go home and sober up,” Jesus provided about 150 gallons more of the best wine. And even if this is still only a detail, it sure is one heck of one. It certainly isn't something we ought to toss off to the side, even if it doesn't fit into our "Who God Is" program. So let it beg the question: What if God is the kind of God who says it's alright to make sure there is enough wine at a wedding feast (as long as there is a designated driver for every car or chariot)? When Jesus told the Pharisees the reason his disciples and he ate and drank a bit more than was customary for prophets and their disciples was because "when the bridegroom is with you that's when you have a good time," he obviously meant it. Jesus knew how to have a good time, by certain earthly standards. How can I put this? Let me see: Jesus was fun! He wasn't a killjoy, no matter how much you've heard this. That's right: Let go, and have fun. It's Christian, Christ-like, to have a good time.
The second thing that hangs people up in this story is the way that Jesus talks to his mother, and the way she talks to him. No matter that Jesus is 30 or so years old, most people feel like Jesus is at least a little bit rude to his mother here. So they go off on tangents about obedience, cutting apron strings, and the fact that Jesus gives in and does it anyway. Mary’s exemplary faith is examined, how even though Jesus says “No way, Mom,” she goes and puts the servants on stand-by anyway. Clearly, in this Mary, you can see the beginning of the Holy Mother Mary of significant Christian traditions. Those discussions can be helpful, but still they’re not the reason John put the story in his Gospel.
Only in the Gospel of John does Jesus say, “I have come that
they might have life and have it more abundantly.” This is what the miracle at
At a Christian retreat weekend a number of years ago, a man was struggling with a call to the ministry. He felt a strong sense of call. “I’m having a hard time,” he said, “because I want it so much, I can’t tell if it’s really God calling me.” The basic problem was that he had a hard time believing God would call him to something he would actually enjoy. He was ready for resigned obedience, but not for joy. Another person in attendance at the weekend counseled him by quoting Psalm 37:4, “Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart." At this the man broke down. Christian joy comes from serving a God whose name is not duty but Love.
God does take mean, ugly lives and transforms them into beautiful angels of mercy. God does take us when we are crawling along on our bellies and gives us wings to fly, when we are broken and then makes us whole. But that’s not the whole picture. This sign is not the message about the transformation of the sinner. What John is pointing to is the promise for those whose lives are really pretty good. So many times people only know the God of living water. The problem is that those who only know the God of living water may never get beyond this to a God of real joy. If you don't think the Lord wants you to be happy, joyful, full of celebration then you don't understand Christianity. It's as unhealthy to reject joy as it is untrue to reject a God who blesses us with joy. Work does not set you free, joy sets you free. Demands ought to be fulfilled; obligations ought to be realized; but God created Adam and Eve, made us out of love and joy and desired our happiness and companionship. Ya gotta love a God who’s all about joy.
In his autobiography, Crazy for God, Frank Schaeffer describes his life growing up in the famous Evangelical/Fundamentalist family of Francis and Edith Schaeffer, of L'Abri fame. At the end of his wonderful book, he circles back around to his mom, and shows us who she had become in her old age.
Mom is ninety-two. Sometimes she talks wistfully about the time when a 'real Broadway producer' saw her dance while she was at college. 'I had talent. I could have made it,' Mom says. 'But my parents forbade it. In fact, when I asked them if I could go, they were so shocked that I had been dancing in a school production that they threatened to take me out of college.'
In my mother's second childhood, as a very old lady with
memory loss, her greatest pleasure, one that literally seems to raise her up, is
not Bible study but dancing. When I take her out during my visits to
I have never loved or admired Mom more than when she dances as the oldest of old ladies.... Her face lights up and she smiles at the world she can't see any more. And all the frail uncertainty leaves her body for a few minutes and she is steady on her feet again....Mom is old, radiant, at peace, and unafraid when she dances. And the paradox is that the woman who I remember no longer exists. The (mother) who rejoices that Lynette was giving up dancing to serve the Lord is gone.
I am curious about the fact that all those tunes are so familiar to Mom. She has forgotten so much, say where she had breakfast or who she just met, but she sings the old show tunes as if she had spent a lifetime on Broadway. That 'jazzy music' was banned from our home when I was young; if we were changing radio stations and hit upon any of the tunes she sings so gleefully in old age, Mom would turn off the radio with a snap and reproachful glare. In the early unreconstructed fundamentalist years, Mom always said, 'Real Christians don't dance. It isn't pleasing to the Lord.'
I never knew how sad that belief must have been making her. And she must have been so torn up inside as she expressed such fierce joy over Lynette giving up dancing, when buried deep there was the memory of the day she also gave up, or was forced to give up, her talent for God."
It doesn't seem to me that Jesus would ever say anything like, "dancing isn't pleasing to the Lord." Ya gotta love a God like that. Don't let them take away your joy. Get your heart back to its God-given happiness. Find in Christ a companion of good times. See in Jesus an inspiration for laughter, friendship, parties and feasts. I know this is not the God or Jesus you probably woke up thinking about this morning, but life is love and love is joy and joy is laughter and laughter is holy and holy is good. And Christ is Lord of them all. Amen.
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